May 16, 2013

Letter #2


Dear Facebook Users,

My daughter recently met her agreed upon criteria before we would allow her to have her own Facebook account.  She will shortly be joining your ranks.  She is only 13 ("almost 14", according to her)  and she has a lot of figuring things out to do.  Please do not wrongly judge her for anything she may post.  She is just learning her way through the world..  She thinks Facebook will make her "real" friends, and help her feel more included.  She will learn this is not necessarily the outcome soon enough.  If you know her and love her, please accept her friendship so she can learn from you.  "Like" her posts now and then.  Be gentle in your comments.  Remember that she is testing the waters of growing up.  Help me watch over her as she enters the world of technology.  This is all a little hard on me, but we do feel it's time.  My Mom didn't have to worry about this kind of stuff raising me.  I'm just learning my way through this new world of parenting, too.  So be gentle with me, too.

Love, her Mom 

3 comments:

Laura said...

I'm loving these letters. They are so open, frank and honest and I'm enjoying getting into your mind. :)

Annette said...

Great thoughts, Kathy. Our moms surely didn't have to face all these technological challenges. I'm thankful my kids made it through high school before cell phones were too rampant!

Jeff said...

Great letters Kathy. I like the idea of "letters never to be sent." ... Claire is about to be on facebook?!?!